Maybe the rules that once made sense—or kept you safe—aren’t working anymore. Maybe you’re noticing that the old expectations feel heavy, constricting, or completely disconnected from who you are now. That’s not a failure. It’s a sign of growth.

Discover a feminist approach to New Year’s resolutions that prioritizes your values, joy, and well-being. Learn how to break free from perfectionism, redefine productivity, and set goals rooted in authenticity and community care.

Perfectionism is a tricky trap. It disguises itself as ambition or self-improvement but often leaves you feeling stuck, exhausted, and never quite good enough. It whispers that if you just try harder or do more, you’ll finally feel worthy of love, success, or happiness. But here’s the truth: perfectionism isn’t the path to fulfillment—it’s the road to burnout.

If you’re grappling with whether to see your family this holiday season, I want to tell you something that might feel radical: You don’t have to go.

As a highly sensitive person, navigating the world can feel overwhelming. But with healthy boundaries, you can protect your emotional well-being and thrive. Learn how to recognize your limits, set clear boundaries, and practice self-compassion to reclaim your energy and joy in a noisy world.