Think you have a motivation problem? What if it’s really a permission problem? Learn why procrastination, lack of focus, and low drive often stem from guilt, perfectionism, and chasing goals that don’t feel like your own—and how giving yourself permission to want what you truly want can unlock real momentum.

Do you ever feel like you’re just spinning your wheels in life? You know something feels off — but no matter how much you analyze, make pros and cons lists, or vent to friends, the clarity just isn’t coming.

Perfectionism is a tricky trap. It disguises itself as ambition or self-improvement but often leaves you feeling stuck, exhausted, and never quite good enough. It whispers that if you just try harder or do more, you’ll finally feel worthy of love, success, or happiness. But here’s the truth: perfectionism isn’t the path to fulfillment—it’s the road to burnout.